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Despite my middling success (or outright failure, if you believe these girls) as a sugar daddy, one of the most highly-read and highly-commented on posts on my blog is The Beginner’s Guide to Being A Sugar Daddy.  It seems like everyone wants to know about the inner workings of “sugar” relationships, and I’ve actually gotten quite a few e-mails, tweets, DMs, and sexts (ok, the last one was just them calling me “Daddy”…) from women who want to know more about how THEY could become sugar babies.

That’s when the idea struck me.  For as much time as I’ve been explaining the guy’s point-of-view, I never really took the time to give the girl’s point-of-view.  Therefore, since I’ve now helped a number of my female followers become sugar babies (not counting the ones I have for myself), I feel like the advice I have given them is good, and I feel confident sharing it with you today!

Note:  yep, I understand the irony in using all of my personal tips-and-tricks to getting sugar babies to now empower sugar babies to get the most of out sugar daddies like me.  But you know what?  All’s fair in love and war!

 

What is a sugar baby?

Generally speaking, a sugar baby is a woman who agrees to be in a relationship with a man in exchange for money.  There are many, many other factors that go into the definition of a sugar baby, but to strip it down to it’s most loose, basic terms, that IS what a sugar baby is.

 

What do I need to know about “sugar” relationships before going down this road?

Again, this is the danger zone:  my opinions on this have earned me a lot of hate, but I’d rather be 100% honest than be a sell-out and never say anything definitively.  So, I’m going to say what I feel a sugar baby needs to be on board with, WITH THE UNDERSTANDING that there are exceptions to every rule:

1. This is a relationship  – Much like you are not a prostitute, he is not an ATM.  You guys are going to get to know each other on pretty decent levels, probably deeper than you’d expect right now.  Be prepared for that.  It’s very common for sugar relationships to become real relationships, or for you to become best friends even after one of you moves on.  One of the things I learned the hard way is that these relationships can be important.  If you’re coming into this just to make money, be aware.  Guys don’t always want just sex.

2. Be prepared to have sex with him – YES, there are sugar relationships out there that are not sexual in any way.  I have no idea where to find them, and if you are looking for that, go ahead and close my blog now, because I can’t help you.  For the rest of you, just acknowledge it.  Part of any relationship is sex.  The good news is that you can still control the “how” and the “how often”.  But don’t think you can get around it unless you are one of the few who is able to find that type of guy:  they all want sex, and most want it as soon as your relationship starts.

3. Be prepared to date below your NORMAL standards – Everyone wants to fuck only Brad Pitt or Magic Mike.  But think about it like this:  would a rich, handsome, Christian Grey-type REALLY be on a sugar website looking for you?  Not likely.  I’m not saying you have to have Buddha or Danny DeVito as your sugar daddy!  But just realize that the tighter your attraction needs to be, the less likely it is you’ll find someone.

4. Don’t get caught up in your emotions YET – I’ll explain this more when we get to the topic of money, but keep in mind that it takes a while to establish a relationship with any new sugar daddy.  As such, don’t lock yourself in at bad terms  initially.  When you are first starting out, your arrangement is 90% terms, 10% relationship.  It’s only as time goes on that the balance turns towards the favor of the relationship vs. the terms.  In fact, as I’ll point out, terms often become more fluid once you’re in a sugar relationship that works.

If you keep those four things in mind before you find your sugar daddy, you’ll be ahead of 99% of the girls who join this lifestyle!

 

Where do I find potential sugar daddies?

I get this question a lot.  There are a few places, actually.  First and foremost, you can try Craigslist or Backpage in the personals sections.  I would recommend against this, as usually the only people who respond are creeps or “pros” who scout these for the beginners who don’t know anything about the lifestyle.  You can do this (or even the reverse, browsing the guys section for dudes who don’t know what they are doing) if you have experience, but I’d shy away otherwise.

There are actually quite a few sugar baby/sugar daddy meeting sites out there.  I don’t use all of them, just because there’s a small variety of new blood once you’ve gotten passed the first two I use, which I think are the biggest sites.  The first, and my personal favorite, is Seeking Arrangement.  The second is Sugar Daddy For Me.  I’ve gone over them in detail in prior posts, but further down I’ll make several points that will inform how you should fill out your profile.

 

What kind of sugar daddies are going to contact me or should I contact?

A lot of this depends on what you’re looking for in a pseudo-boyfriend.  Like I said above, you might want to loosen up your normal attractiveness guidelines a bit.  But things like personality and allowance range are big deals that you need to take into consideration.

About Him

If his profile or his messages/e-mails sound dull, guess what?  HE’S DULL.  You can’t force a guy to be personable over the easiest medium that he can use to hook a sugar baby.  Sure, he may be the coolest guy you’ve ever met if you meet him in person, but the chances that even a decent in-person conversationalist can’t type a passable message that makes him seem ok are slim.  Don’t waste your time hunting for diamonds in a rough – you ARE the diamond…

You also need to be prepared to deal with a ton of weirdos and dudes who just want to have sex.  The girl I most recently helped land a SD commented that she quickly developed a pretty easy way of discerning who was a good guy just based on his initial messages, even if he didn’t give his profile much effort.  Not only that, but a DECENT guy stands out like a man among boys when you consider the amount of messages you get from idiots who can’t spell “are”, “you”, and “what”.

If he doesn’t have a picture in his profile, I would ignore his messages unless you haven’t gotten any other credible leads first.  A guy on this type of site who can’t put up a picture of himself has shit to hide, even if this lifestyle is considered taboo.  If you just can’t find a decent guy out there, then if a photo-less guy sent a really good message or has a really good profile, then you can *consider* him.  But again, I’d shy away from them in general until you really have your SD-bullshit meter fine tuned.

About Allowance

This is generally an unpleasant topic for girls.  Basically, there are two reasons girls get into the sugar lifestyle:  they either need the money, or there are all the other reasons.  For the girls that need the money, this lifestyle starts out as more of an emergency than a valuation of self-worth.  For the girls who don’t need the money (and I define “need” here as girls who need a sugar daddy’s money or else she won’t be able to pay all her essential bills next month), this lifestyle is almost entirely a valuation of self-worth.

The needy girls are often the ones who end up entering into a sugar relationship at an allowance amount below what they might get given more time.  These are often the girls who put “Open – Amount Negotiable” in the $$$ box on their profile.  In fact, I think I can definitively state that you’ll never see a girl who’s desperate to pay her bills select “$10,000+” on her profile, haha!

When you’re filling out your profile, put the money you expect to make.  Seriously.  You don’t want to waste a sugar daddy’s time trying to arrange something with you if you put “Open”, but you know you won’t settle for less than $5,000/month.  Likewise, don’t give a slick-talking sugar daddy the opening to convince you to take less than what you want to see him.  If you will only become a sugar baby for a minimum of $1,000/month, or $20,000/month, or whatever the magic number is, put that as your minimum.  Believe me, if you are out of a guy’s range, he’ll leave you alone unless he’s one of the aforementioned weirdos.

One last nugget before moving on, and I already know I’m going to get the most hate mail for this, but I’m not being honest if I leave this out:  consider the possibility that you are overstating your worth.

Ok, now that you have called me a cheap asshole, hear me out.  If you put pictures of yourself up on your profile (which you SHOULD do), and you make your profile as perfectly as you want to represent yourself, and you have your preferred allowance listed as a minimum of $10,000/month…and NO ONE messages you…you might be shooting a little too high.  That’s why I said to set your ABSOLUTE MINIMUM up front:  If you want $10k, but you’ll settle for $2k, don’t get cute.  There’s plenty of time to trade up for a bigger fish, so to speak.  Not only that, but the money isn’t the whole relationship, right?  If it is, and you can’t get your absolute minimum, then take the sign from the universe and delete your account, because you’re not worth what you think you are OR you aren’t going to find the guy who values you that high on these sites.  There’s no shame in just saying that the lifestyle isn’t worth it to you.

 

I think I’ve found a good guy!  How do I make an arrangement?

There’s a lot of little steps involved.  Finding a guy is the most frustrating part, but the “home stretch” isn’t a cake walk, either.

Step 1:  Set up a meeting ASAP.

If you’ve found a guy you’d like to be in a SR (sugar relationship) with, hopefully he will ask you out for coffee or a meal pretty quickly.  If not, it’s not weird or rude or uncommon to just go ahead and ask him if he’d like to meet.  There are a few ground rules I’ve laid out for the SBs I’ve coached while they look for a SD, and so you need to follow them, too:

1.  Meet in a public place – This might seem like common sense, but keep it in mind.  First and foremost, you want to be safe.  There are crazy fuckers out there.

2.  Do NOT discuss money – This may sound odd, but you do not want to discuss much of your money woes with the potential SD on the first meeting.  Keep in mind that there is a negotiation period when determining an allowance amount, and that the guy wants to get you for as cheaply as he can – if you’re in the $3k-5k range, he wants to get you for $3k or less; you want him to give you $5k or more – do NOT forget this!  Also, most guys that have the true financial ability to be a sugar daddy are also probably decent businessmen.  What do a lot of businessmen do for a living?  Negotiate!  Giving him any financial information about you before it’s time to negotiate will put you at a disadvantage.

3.  Do NOT sleep with him – I hope this is common sense, but guys know within .00000000000001 seconds of meeting you whether or not they want to have sex.  Once they’ve decided that they do, SOME guys (not all) will try to get you to agree to sleep with them before you even talk to them in person.  DON’T DO IT!!!  First of all, you don’t want that guy as a sugar daddy.  Second of all, if you give it up for free, why are you doing this?  And if you agreed to an allowance, you ignored my second rule.  And finally, even if you break my rules and agree to an allowance on the first date, he may just leave and never talk to you again.  Establishing a few dates will make it more obvious what he’s in this for.

4.  Transport yourself – Before you’ve been with him a while, you should drive yourself, take public transportation, or have a friend drive you to your dates.  Don’t risk it.

Hopefully, you’ll find out what you need to know in that first meeting.  If he was using old pictures, he may be less attractive.  He may give you a creeper vibe.  One of my SB friends went on her first date with a guy who immediately started talking about them moving in together – awkward!!!!  Hell, if you’re lucky, then HE’LL tell you all the information you need to know to have a leg up in allowance negotiations.  Ask him about his job, what he does, etc.

 

Step 2:  Negotiate the arrangement.

Assuming you guys keep in touch after the first meeting, clearly you both want to progress the relationship, and it’s time to hammer out the details.  Before we consider the financial aspect, agree on:

- How many times you’ll meet per month

- What the dates will consist of (I’ve done arrangements where we meet twice during the week for dinner only, and then had a date night on the weekend where we go out and then spend the night together, etc.)

- How you’ll be paid (will you get paid the whole monthly allowance on the 1st?  Will you get paid each visit?  Once a week?  Cash?  Bank transfer?)

- What the “cancellation policy” will be (if one of you has to cancel a date or be out of town for a while, how do you make it up?)

- The “fringe benefits” (do you guys go on vacations?  Do you get weekly shopping trips?  Do you get an apartment?)

You want to get those details above worked out first.  Reason being is that it gives you a clear picture of what amount you are negotiating for.  For example, if you see him once a month, maybe you only need $1,000/mo from him on the 1st.  If you see him 3 times a week, maybe you agree to $12,000/month with $1,000 cash given to you each visit or transferred to your bank account.  Knowing what your obligations are gives you the freedom to know what it is you need in order to agree to his “wants”.

Also, you need to do this all over e-mail.  You can discuss everything via text, but make sure you e-mail him or have him e-mail you what the final outcome is.  Keep the e-mail in your archives.  Not that you should expect to run into a problem where one of you gets fuzzy on the outline of your arrangement, but IF it happens, have the proof in the pudding, so to speak.

Step 3:  Negotiate the allowance.

This is the most crucial aspect of the sugar relationship. I don’t give a shit what anyone else tells you – what you agree to here is what you will end up receiving from him until you have established a good enough relationship that money is irrelevant, or at least less important, to the conversation.  Again, to restate what I said earlier:  with all other factors being equal, the guy wants to pay you the minimum amount possible, and you should want him to pay you the maximum amount possible.  Do not take this lightly.  Don’t treat this as one of those “the relationship is the most important thing to me, money is second” bullshit ideas.  You get what you are worth:  if you agree to a $450/month allowance, you are worth $450/month.  Don’t expect to adjust that rate in a year to $4,500/month, because you looked at a couple blogs online where the girls are getting so much more than you.  You have to treat this as if you’ll never get a dime more than what you can get now, or else you lose out.

Here are a few tips:

1.  Do not make the first offer – I give my friends a simple line to use every time the guy tries to fish for how much she wants from him:  “A lady never makes the first offer.”  Simple.  If he wants you as his sugar baby, he needs to be uncomfortable and put the first offer out there.  Gentlemen hold doors open for ladies, don’t they?

2.  Counter with double his first offer – That’s right, double it.  He will NEVER offer you the maximum amount of his “sugar budget” up front.  If he does, he’s a poor negotiator. Even if that amount is significantly more than you were hoping for, take a chance and double it.  If the guy offers you $5,000/month, tell him you were really hoping to get $10k.  Sure, some guys may laugh, others may never send you another e-mail.  But most are invested in you at this point, aren’t they?  Here’s a simple truth:  guys don’t have many girls fawning over them in these situations.  Just like in real life, girls hold all the power.  If he’s trying to negotiate with you, he wants you.  Make him pay for it!  You’re worth it!

3.  His next offer is serious – If he’s like the 90% of guys trying to get a sugar baby, when you double his offer (which is likely out of his range – even the cheapest SOBs usually offer 50-75% of what the max they have in mind is), he will respond with a number that is much more in line with what his max budget is.  For example, if he offers $5k, and you counter with $10k, his next offer of $6-7k will likely be the top of his range.  You may leave a few hundred or a thousand dollars on the table (say his budget is $7,500), but you’ll be happy that you got that extra $1-2k from him, won’t you????

4.  Keep the perks in mind – Sure, maybe you want $10k a month.  But maybe in exchange for shaving a couple thousand off your allowance, he’ll take you shopping, to spas, and on nice vacations across the country/world.  If the relationship is what will only grow from here on out, it wouldn’t hurt to give him some slack so that he can afford to do the things that a good boyfriend/SD would do:  SPOIL YOU!

 

I’ve got the arrangement done!  Now what?

Hopefully, once you’ve gotten everything negotiated and squared away, everything that happens from here on out would be gravy.  Nothing more than the normal awkwardness when you go on dates knowing that things are progressing.  If the relationship is good, though, then it should feel like a dream:  you’re getting PAID to spend time with a great guy???  How fucking awesome is that!

I’m not going to spend much time talking about the middle and end of these things, because they are all unique once they get started.  Some will end up bad despite your best effort, some will be so so.  Hopefully, if you’ve followed my advice up until now, you’ll have the highest odds of having the beginning of a fulfilling, meaningful relationship with a great guy who will treat you right and spoil you like the beautiful, deserving woman you are.

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I hope you all enjoyed that.  If I come back later and realize I missed something like an idiot, I’ll probably post an update in a new blog so that this will remain largely untouched.

As always, please leave comments below, and feel free to tweet me on Twitter!  I love my followers and readers, and I try to respond to every piece of communication I receive, so don’t be afraid to say hey!

Comments
  1. Jody says:

    Im just starting out and I loved this…thank you, it was a great read!!!

  2. prettyBaby says:

    just stumbled across your page not sure what I think just yet but some good advice. I like your line ” A lady never makes the first offer” .

  3. kayla says:

    So far i’ve broken ever rule here ;\ ive just started out.
    Is asking for 350 for a first date bad?
    He also wants sex with me the first meet and i am uncomfortable with this.

    • Liz.bit says:

      Tell him you are uncomfortable then. An hour with an escort is usually around $300. And that is the average Joe paying.

      My advice would be to say “actually, I underestimated my value upon thinking things over. I don’t think this is going to work out.” And then refer him to an escort site. Because he is exploiting you. Don’t be afraid or timid, if he’s already sitting across the table from you over a cup of coffee, he’s ready to hear your offer. As the article mentions above, HE PROBABLY NEGOTIATES FOR A LIVING.

      When you are looking for a sugar daddy, make sure you know your value. What is value? Well, an example would be this: the value of the US dollar is .98 cents in Canada, currently. So you can buy that many US dollars for that many Canadian dollars. Are you hot, are you fit, are you tall, are you well dressed, are you well spoken, are you well educated, are you mind-blowing in bed, are you compliant but confident? Yeah that would be a sugar baby worth a lot more than 10k I can tell you that much. And if the current possible Sd thinks that even 10k is too much, well then he’s looking for someone young and naiive to exploit. And that’s business ethics. You wanna run with the bulls? Better get some good running shoes.

      There are SOOOO many men out there who will spend money on you. You just need to grow a pair of ovaries and woman the F up. ;)

      • Liz.bit says:

        edit: I don’t mean that you have to be hot, tall, fit, etc. Sugar babies come in many sizes and shapes and all walks of life. I am just giving you a general figure for that value.

      • Hinna says:

        Hi Liz, I need your help. I’m new to SB-SD and I don’t know what to do. I can’t really think of a perfect approach with my profile.

      • new sugar baby says:

        Hi! I need advice on if the range I chose (and my reasons behind it) are reasonable. I’m not considering the SB life just for the money. I want something meaningful out of it and I don’t want an SD to expect a lot more sexual favors than I’m willing to give because my price is so high.

        I know my minimum is 2k. My range on my profile is 1-3k

        I believe my worth is more than that just by virtue of the questions you asked above. I’m incredibly hot with a smoking body, I’m confident, well dressed, well spoken & educated, good in bed and very accommodating to a man….but as I said, it’s not all the about the money for me. Yes, I know intimacy will be involved, but I don’t want more expected of me than i’m willing to give sexually. I want things to develop as if I was traditionally dating. Plus, I’d rather my SD be able to take me out to do awesome, albeit expensive things, and spoil me with amazing gifts and/or trips. I don’t want him cringing every time he pays me. and the less the relationship resembles a contract the better.

        So, would my range represent that to an SD? Am I selling myself way too short?? I’m low-maintenance and am not trying to live lavishly. I understand to be stress free for my SD, to be fun, non-judgmental and I would give him my genuine support and loyalty.

      • yala says:

        Thank you so much for this response. And i’m just starting out. I requested the same and he requested sex first date too. absolutely not! but im learning! and is asking for a bill of health ok? or a no no?

      • Ngaire says:

        Thanks for that. I give myself a seriously hard time when contemplating becoming a sugar baby. Not hidous, however certainly not a young gorgous 20yr old! you’ve given good advice for me to start off!

      • manda says:

        brilliant :)

    • Angelic2000 says:

      You’re a moron girl! Geezus!!

  4. Most people don’t even know that the word sugar baby even exsists. In a way i think when a woman says she wants a rich man she is in effect saying she wants to be his sugar baby i.e to be kept.

  5. Hello, Sugar babies are now a days are only available for rich peoples anyways…I needed to thank you for this good read!! I certainly loved every little bit of it. I’ve got you saved as a favorite to check out new things you post And am also there in this profession for long time.

  6. Lisa says:

    This blog has helped so much, even though I still feel somewhat clueless not as much as before :) I would love if you emailed me I have so many questions, questions many others might have :)

  7. Vanessa says:

    Hey I’m very curious about being a sugar baby and was hoping you can give me some more insight on all of this email me back or call 773 554 2897

  8. Vanessa says:

    Sorry lol wrong number

  9. Bianca says:

    what I’m confused about is once you’ve negotiated an amount, or allowence.. who gives first? he will always think you should sleep with him first then he gives you an allowence, to make sure that he doesn’t give you money and you walk, and YOU will want him to give allowence first to make sure you don’t sleep with him, then he walks without giving you a dime.. how does that work??

  10. Courtney says:

    Seriously I wish I would’ve read this the first time I tried looking for a SD!! Totally played myself but now that I know all of this I know exactly how to handle other potentials…thank you so much!!! You’re awesome for this…<3

  11. Ashly says:

    Your like perfect. (:

  12. Kaley says:

    Nice post. Grazie!

  13. jah says:

    what if he wants you to send xrated pictures before the date even though you seen his on the site

  14. jah says:

    what if he wants you to send xrated pictures before the date even though you seen his on the site is it okay

    • Kaley says:

      No nude pics! I’d say ever, but especially before meeting, and getting to know him better. Explicit but not nude is up to you. I’d say no face in the pics, but again this should not come before meeting. He could just want pics all along, with no intentions of meeting. Meet him, go out, make sure he’s a real sd. A real sd does way more you than you do for him. Especially, in the beginning. Be careful, and don’t let anyone take advantage of you!

  15. jamie says:

    A pot sugar daddy wants me to pay to fly to nc from ne to see him. His only excuse why he won’t do it is “plenty of other girls, broker than you have done it”. He claims his job field won’t alloweven a day trip. Is he serious?

    • Kaley says:

      Do not spend your money to see a SD! My last SD flew me in to him even before meeting me in person! We hadn’t even video chat. So, we were both taking a huge risk. A SD will make you pay for nothing! The first time, I did pay for my baggage and shuttle fees to the airport, but he reimbursed me when I got to his city, plus extra to leave with. For flights following this one, he sent me money beforehand.

      “Broker than you.” Don’t fall for this because a real SD will not try to pressure you to spend YOUR money to come see HIM. This guy could actually be someone you don’t want to meet. You know? There’s so many fraud SDs.

      DO NOT pay for a flight to him! If he can’t come see you, or pay for you flight to see him, I’d be very suspicious!

      Be careful!

      • paige lyssa says:

        How did you get started and have the guts to go ? I’m just a beginner but I don’t have a clue where to start ?

  16. paige lyssa says:

    Hi I really want to get started to be a really good escort? I just don’t know where to start or how to even begin to be one,, would you please help me ? X

  17. paige lyssa says:

    Really want to be a suga babe can you please contact me on my email or 07453977097 thanks ;)

  18. Lauren says:

    great article!! is there any advice you can you can offer about a sd who is married..im new to all this and could use as much advice as possible, but my way of thinking is that if he is married it takes even more pressure of me, as the sb or no? also i have an account on seekingarrangement and i just get freaked out about meeting someone in person any tips on how to put my mind more at ease?

    • imalittlefox says:

      Hi Lauren, I am myself a European sugar baby in the making. But not without any background.

      -I have dated many men and like men a lot :)
      -I usually date older men as they are better at sex and worship me (find me more beautiful than a 35 year old lady and can’t believe their chance). I would not get that service form boys my age, because I am just pretty and that’s it. Whereas, I am often better looking than a mature man.
      I still love doing virgins from time to time, male young adults are so cute (but dumb).
      -I meet men at parties, in bars, but also thanks to dating website.

      My advice on dating a MARRIED MAN:
      -If you are feeling uncomfortable with him having kids or being married, just do not see him.
      The man wants to relax, not to have someone make him feel guilty. He wants a fun girl to make him feel young and carefree again, not to pass judgement on him.
      -Do not speak to him about his family unless he does it first. Do not ask questions out of the blue such as :” why do you resort to sugar dating, maybe it isn’t going to great with your wife ? do you want to talk about it? “. You are not his shrink. Time will come when he might want to make you his confidant, but do not force things.
      I think that when you are together with your sugar daddy, you should try to consider you guys as boyfriend and girlfriend. He is not a married man anymore, he is YOUR boyfriend. It may be hard at first but with time, and getting fonder of him, you will naturally feel this way. :)

      Personally, I avoid married men, unless the wife knows and this is all part of an open relationship.
      I tend to develop qualms and remorse easily.

      My advice on REAL LIFE MEETING:
      -Do not be squeamish when interacting with a man online ! Even if you naturally are shy, try to look confident. Fake sugar daddies will be discouraged and will see they can’t fool you.
      -Skype before meeting them. We have access to handy technologies, use them.
      -If you two guys are feeling comfortable and he trusts you, you can ask him for his name, so that you can google him, be upfront about it. Say: “I want to know if you are real, so I need your name to see if you really work for that company”. Or “Maybe you can give me a link to your online resume ?” Or “If you are part of any social network (fb, twitter) can I see your profile ?”. I have asked those questions to regular men before meeting them.
      An honest man, who has nothing to hide will give you those information.
      -Meet in public, maybe during day time.
      -Do not get in a stranger’s car. Ask a good friend to take you there with their car and ask them to come pick you up after, in front of the date location (not in a desert parking-lot).

      And eventually, during your date, be cheerful. Do not speak about how busy school is, how mean your parents are, how hard is life when you lack money. Attraction is just not physical, so just be your best.

      you should read those two articles on safety.

      http://blog.seekingarrangement.com/dont-get-taken-sugar-baby-safety/

      http://blog.seekingarrangement.com/sugar-safety-recap/

      Be careful and use common sense. Good luck Lauren !

      Littlefox.

      • imalittlefox says:

        I wrote “Attraction is just not physical” but meant “attraction is not just physical”. Can’t believe you can’t edit your comments on wordpress :/

  19. Cali says:

    Thanks so much for writing this. I am a new sugar baby, and I wish I would have read this before I meet my first pot. Anyways, I have some questions about making the arrangements. I messed up and did not deal with them in the beginning because of the awkwardness.

  20. Marene says:

    I actually like your honesty and your straightforward attitude. This has helped me and I can’t wait to try out your tips to find a SD.
    Always, Marene

  21. linfie says:

    When do sugar babies get paid? And how ? I know no sex until ur paied but how does it work?

  22. sarah says:

    I love this blog!

    I have a meeting arranged with a potential (MARRIED) SD on March 12. This is my first time and I am nervous as he’s asked me to have sex with him after our lunch meeting (providing me connect). I guess I’m fine with this but just don’t know how to discuss the “financial” arrangement.

    I’m aware a SD/SB arrangement involves intimacy but on the first meet…?

    Also his profile says he doesnt want to attract “gold-diggers” (which I’m not) BUT I want to make sure I get my worth to enter into such a lifestyle.

    How much is the right amout and is it okay to have it paid in cash? I share bank accounts with my boyfriend and don’t want him to find out.

    Ideally I’d like £5000 per month in exchange to spend 2/3 times per month together. Is this reasonable?

    Please reply as Tuesday is not that far away!

    • KaleyShi88 says:

      I don’t think that’s too much to ask. Also, no sex on the first meet. This is no different from a “regular” relationship. It’s ultimately up to you, but he needs to respect you, for what te situation is.

      • sarah says:

        thanks for the advice… what about the financials?? Do you think Im okay to ask for cash?

  23. Renee Rodriguez says:

    Hey, so I was looking up some info online about being a sugar baby because I straight up got asked by a guy if I wanted a sugar daddy… I am a waitress struggling through college and debt, so an opportunity like this sounds great…. expect the fact that I have a boyfriend of 2 and a half years that I love. I’ve had a couple of “hook ups” for money before from an old co-worker, but that was literally to put food on my table. He doesn’t know, and would be heart broken if he found out. I’m not a prostitute or anything like that, I have respect for myself and my boyfriend, but this guy is super tempting. He is significantly older than I am, and comes into the diner I work at very regularly and always tips well. He offered to take me out to dinner, casino, etc, and he owns a body shop and offered to work on my car for free and in return wants his house cleaned and sexual interactions every week or so. I feel conflicted keeping this from my boyfriend, but we both are up to our eyes in debt and really need it. We have plans to move in a few months, which is also going to be expensive. I’m nervous and can’t decide if its worth it or not. Any advice??

    • imalittlefox says:

      Hi Renee :)
      Seems like you are in a difficult situation.

      First, you need to make sure, that potential sugar daddy actually wants to give you allowances, in the form of cash. From what I have read so far, it seems he wants to help you (work on your car for free), provide you with fun (casinos, restaurants) but he never mentioned cash. Maybe he is wary of prostitution regulations. Be sure to ask, cause you might be in for a disappointing surprise.

      Second, how come he asked you upfront if you were looking for a sugar daddy ? How does he know about your financial situation, or that you can stand the fact to have sex for money if you are in a pinch ? Is your coworker you had sex with working at that diner ? Maybe your coworker spilled the beans…
      That potential sugar daddy seems like a nice guy, but speaking in such an upfront way about “sexual interactions in exchange for house cleaning and (possibly) money” I think he kind of sees you like a prostitute.
      Worse, he’s a body shop owner, not a lawyer or a CEO at some big Cie, which means, he has lots of free time on his hands.
      Chances are, he will first think of you as a prostitute, but then, he will want to see you more often, one day, he will think of you as his gf and as his property. Eventually, it will conflict with the relationship you are having with your current bf.

      You should go on SeekingArrangement. I found two potential sugar daddies there that I still need to meet in real life.
      They are both looking for a GIRLFRIEND, so, logically I think they would also expect intimacy, and so do I (and it better be good, or else I’m out). However, none of them has ever told me during our phone calls or emails conversations : “I want us to have sex”.
      I talked about my sexual experiences, my opinions on relationships and on dating older men with one of those men, over the phone. He never said, not even once: “I hope we can have sex :)
      Do you see the difference (in standards) between my experiences and yours ?
      The good thing is, you were lucky enough to find a sugar daddy by chance. Sure, you didn’t have to put yourself out there on the Internet, but you could use a cropped face-picture of you, and you’d be safe. You’d get more choice using a website and probably, a better sugar daddy, that would see more in you than just a walking vagina.
      Also, If I had a boyfriend like you do, I’d be looking for a very busy man, who is not living in my town, so that he wouldn’t feel the need to see me too often.

      Finally, in my opinion you shouldn’t tell your boyfriend. He might look down on you, he might stop respecting you, knowing you cheating on him, and that was for money.
      Second, in case he’s okay with that sugar daddy thing, don’t let your man become your PIMP. It’s easy money, soon, you won’t be his gf anymore, but a way of earning fast money. You do not have to become a sugar baby for the two of you guys.
      He can become a sugar baby if he wants to. He can have sex with an older lady, or top for a rich bottom gay man, or he could do porn (in straight porn men don’t get their face filmed, after all).

      “we both are up to our eyes in debt and really need it” No, you got it wrong. He has his own debts, and you have yours. Whatever way you choose to solve your debt issue, it is your burden, but also your “reward”.

      If you want a sugar daddy find one, but keep it to yourself.

      All the best.
      Littlefox

    • KenzieB says:

      Renee, I understand exactly. Apparently, I have a “wage garnishment”. I didn’t even know what that was.? One of my student loans went unpaid because everything was sent to an old address. Now, I’m in some serious hot water. I thought hey! I’ve dated a lot of jerks for free. What’s wrong with going out with some great guys that could benefit me in a very serious tangible way? My boyfriend does not see it that way. I half brought it up in a joking manner and he flipped! He tends to see things as black and white. Regardless, I love him. I’ve never loved anyone else before. He’s my 1st boyfriend, but I can’t imagine my life without him. I want to meet up with a SD tonight. I’m afraid I won’t be able to live with myself. On the other hand, I think about everything I have to pay this month. I don’t have it! My parents already help me out so much. I can’t keep going to them. They’re in their 60s. Plus, my mom has been dealing with cancer for the last couple of years. They don’t need my BS.

      I want to be honest with my bf, but he’d never stand for it. I know in my heart this isn’t a great situation to put myself in. Then again, it’s the most logical solution. If I didn’t have a bf, I would totally do it. Sometimes we just have to do what we got to do. right? Does anyone have any advice?

      Thank you all!

      K.

  24. JJ says:

    I need to advice asap!

    Just connected with an amazing SD who found me on SeekingArrangement.com. He sounds lovely, very handsome, has very deep pockets (by the sounds of it) and we’ve arranged to meet next week for lunch. But the thing is I’ve used a fake name on my profile. I don’t know what to. It’s my first time doing this and I’m scared he may ask me for ID. What shall I do if he wants to transfer money into my bank account instead of providing a cash allowance? I’m super scared. Have I shot myself in the foot? HELP!

    • First off, do NOT hand over your ID. You have no obligation to let anyone know who you are. In fact, he may expect that you’re using a fake name and be using one himself.

      Revealing actual (or more personal) info is your discretion. If he needs more info than you’re willing to provide, he is welcome to miss out on an amazing relationship with a beautiful woman.

      Exchange of money is also something that should be compromised on. If he wants to transfer money, you can usually do that without showing anything more than your account number. If not, cash is the way to go.

      Again, it’s up to your comfort level. If he seems like a genuine guy after a month or two, you can set up an account he can deposit into. I’ve even heard of guys setting up separate accounts in their name and giving their sugar baby a debit card to use on it for whatever. Or prepaid cards with no account info at all.

      Bottom line: there are tons of creative ways to work it out, and the right SD for you will understand and work with you to ensure everything is done right.

      Sent from my iPhone

      • JJ says:

        I was taught honesty is the best policy; obviosuly I’ve got a lot to learn being a SB!!! Thanks so much

  25. Nisha says:

    I’ve had horrible luck looking for a sugar daddy, I live in Canada, and all the sugar daddies who have approached me all want sex. Granted. I haven’t been on Seeking Arrangement very long and the only reason I joined was a huge financial emergency, something that impacted my family and i really needed the money…so I joined. So I finally zeroed in on a seemingly good guy, and he seemed to have a nice personality, and then I met him. But as it turned out, he was willing to meet me, take me for lunch, but he refused to assist me financially until I had sex with him. He kept skirting around the issue, but I never clued in, until he bluntly stated it and I was faced with a choice. He offered me 25k for half an hour with him, and right now, looking at my family’s financial situation… I don’t think i should turn it down. So I didn’t. I’m meeting him tomorrow, but this sugar daddy-baby relationship totally isn’t going as planned and I feel riddled with guilt about the path I’ve chosen. Also, even though he seems like a polite, nice man, I am not attracted to him at all. He’s shorter than me, has a potbelly, not attractive AT ALL, his teeth are messed up (and so I suspect he has bad breath), and the idea of sex with him seems repulsive. I don’t know how I’m going to go through with it, and it’s happening tomorrow. The best I’ve thought of is slugging a few shots beforehand and then getting it over with in a drunken stupor. Does anyone have any advice for me on how to get past his awful looks?

    • imalittlefox says:

      Don’t go for god’s sake !!! If you don’t feel like going, don’t go, trust your gut ! Sacrebleu ! Did he give you money during your first date or is he to give you the money after sex ? If he hasn’t give you the money yet, how do you even know if he has the financial means to splurge 25k or 50k ?? And just to be clear, to me, when you say: 25k I hear $25 000 ?! Did you mean 2.5k by any chance ? This sounds clearly fishy that he wants to have sex with you that fast. He’s treating you like an escort, if he wants an escort, he certainly has the money for that. The point of being in a sugar relationship is to be with someone that treats you like a bf or a gf. You generally take the time to get to know your gf or bf before you have sex with them. I mean, what’s the rush ? I think the guy is not what he says he is, he is going to have sex with you, and leave without giving you any money.
      And I may be delusional but I would not want to receive money in an envelop right after I had sex with someone. I would feel degraded. Money or other form of compensation can be involved (I mean that is the point of going sugar, but I don’t want to see it in such a crude way)
      Stay on seeking arrangement, and look around, you’ll find other men that we will be more gentleman-like.

      I’m sure the owner of the blog will advise you to be wary of that sugar daddy.
      Also, is that your real first name and your last name we can read when you post a comment ?!

  26. N.Patel says:

    I just want to add to the comment I left above ^ that this man also wants to go on vacations with me but for the sole purpose I mentioned above. I’m based in Vancouver but he wants me to come with him on his “business trips” to the states for two-three days at a stretch. I feel nervous about that, but for everyday spent with him he’s willing to pay me 50k. What would I tell my parents? And my sister is already suspicious…it’s not the best situation to be in.

  27. amee says:

    help!!

    i have met two men on seeking arrangement.. the first traveled a lot for work so we were only able to meet 3 times in the span of about a month. we had agreed to an arrangement of 8k/month but he said he wanted to wait until he was back in town to start which was fine. upon the official start of our arrangement he wanted to have sex but i refused since up to that point i had only met him twice before and never received any money from him. that didn’t end well as i refused to give it up without having gotten paid.

    the second i met more recently- we had dinner two weeks ago, it went really well and we both agreed that we were interested in pursuing the relationship further and agreed to a financial arrangement. i have spoken to him frequently since then but it seems like something keeps coming up and we are unable to meet. i guess he’s not interested anymore but then why would he keep responding and setting tentative dates (to meet up)?

    i don’t know what I’m doing wrong here? they both seemed to be super interested when they met me but i have seen no follow through.. is this a common thing, or am i missing something here?

    mind you, i looked up both individuals prior to meeting them to confirm their wealth so there were no concerns about having the money. both were easily searchable on google, and i was easily able to validate their (considerable) wealth. i just haven’t been able to access it!

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  29. Elle says:

    Hi!

    I’m currently starting up my SB business. I am not desperate for the moneyave full availability, am often told im beautiful, 5‘9 ,thind can hold a coversation, so I think hell, what makes a girl worth 10-20k a month, and I canwill make that my allowance. What are some tips you have for me??? Also,I have this feeling if Im aiming for super wealthy men, i may encounter some cocky assholes. Do you have any tips for keeping them in line?? As yoy certainly seem to know a thing or 2 about cockiness.lol

    Thanks in advance,
    Elle

  30. Able Secret says:

    WOW….this is an eye opener. I am just starting with this “career” and I am no spring chicken. I’m 42 and getting interest from men in their 30s to 60s. I really appreciated the negotiating tips…they are golden as are the safety tips. I am in no financial emergency, so I can be picky. In fact, I wrote on my profile I can pay my bills and am not desperate, lol.

  31. Ntonto says:

    U are such a tough cookie and straight forward , it is best to know the truth than a lie … U really are a good person , only if i had a sugar daddy i’d follow all ur tips pity i dont!! Much love

  32. jj says:

    thing is my regular sugar daddy is based in the usa and im in the uk. he’s extremely rich and very generous however he is soon to arrive back in london and asked if he can act out a rape fantasy for £10k. he’s not here all the time and i love spending time with him but is he asking for too much?

    another who ive recently met is so shy but lovely. he wants to see me once/twice every 2/3 months – he has more money and doesnt have strange requests. he’s married with a family (bonus) and i dont want to take advantage of him.

    how can i get exactly what i want from him without sounding like a complete gold digger???

    • The short answer is you don’t need to feel bad about asking for money. As long as you, in your heart, are more concerned with getting to know him and providing him the emotional benefits he isn’t getting at home, you are worth every penny, are you not? If you don’t make it about money, you’ll get more than you ever asked for.

      If you aren’t comfortable with the rape fantasy, politely say that it doesn’t make you feel comfortable. I think role playing is fun, and I’d even entertain that if my partner asked for that to be done to her. As long as its in the privacy of home and he doesn’t physically harm you, I don’t see an issue with it.

      Hope that helps!

  33. Jamie says:

    I have the same concern as one of the other ladies above “who gives first?” Sex or money?
    And the advice given above is great! But I have kinda already broken some of the rules. Me and my potential SD have been emailing for a few days and plan to have dinner this up coming week. This guys seems very respectful. But it was my idea to have dinner and discuss allowance over dinner and he agreed. Now he also says that if everything goes good and we like each other for me to stay the night with him.

    What now? Please somebody help. This is my very first time!

    • Able Secret says:

      Get whatever you want first. Is he your boyfriend or a SD??? A lot of SBs have given out sexually first and then gotten nothing from their pot SD. If he doesn’t give first, find someone else. There are plenty of SD out there that will give out first. I would never have any sex on the first date with a potential SD….get the agreement in writing. AND negotiate your price….in a nice way.

    • cheetee94 says:

      Refuse… settle the amount first. Cause tell me who will pay for a plate he already tasted or ate?

  34. l says:

    Okay so I’m confused. I started my profile about 5 days ago and I got an e mail from a man in L.A and he was totally upfront of want he wants and what he is willing to give (minus the amount) he also said he wants pictures of me either with bra or without and to send them to his email . I told him I wasnt comfortable to send them throuh email so lets make it a suprise. That was yesterday Friday the 24. I havent heard from him again. I think I scared him off. What do I do now?

    • imalittlefox says:

      “he also said he wants pictures of me either with bra or without and to send them to his email ”

      You know where you end up when you give naked pictures of yourself to a guy ? On Xh@mster, in the guy’s “hungry for money sluts” gallery.
      Never give naked pictures of you to anyone !!! Never let a guy film you having sex, and I don’t care if he is your fiance and says that he loves you. This could ruin your life. On Xh@mster you see too many amateur videos or pictures entitled: “my ex wife is such an anal whore”, “my ex slutty gf”, “my ex gf giving me a bj”, “my ex naked wife, she was hot but what a psycho !!!”

      In my opinion, that guy you talked to, was 20 year old and a student with too much free time on his hands. He saw that you started your profile just 5 days ago and thought you’d be green and gullible.
      You just scared away a fake sugar daddy ! Good for you !
      Be strong when dealing with sugar daddies, you can be all sweet and nice once you’ve found a nice man and you know you can trust him.
      Don’t be scared of scaring away men that are just after sex and your body, you will find a nice sugar daddy, a real gentleman, that will see in you a funny, sweet and loving companion, not just a set of tits :)

      Good luck sweetie :)

      • Able Secret says:

        I completely agree: Never Never Never send him naked photos. If you want to video tape, do it from your phone or camera so YOU have control of it. Don’t send it to him, ever.

  35. sportsgirl says:

    Okay I’m in need of some help. I’m new at this. A man emailed me on sugar daddy for me his from L.A and he has a photo, he was totally up front with what he wants and willing to give. I’m all on borde, but he wants pics of me in my bra or naked and to send them to his e mail. I told him I’m all on for everything but sending pics through e mail. I’m not comfortable with that so lets make it a suprise. That was yesterday…Friday May 24. He hasn’t set up a meeting or even e mailed me back. What do I do now?

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  37. B says:

    So happy I found this. I have really been working on what to say to guys and how to negotiate.

  38. Tracy says:

    New to sd/sb please help. referring to a previous post.
    what I’m confused about is once you’ve negotiated an amount, or allowence.. who gives first? he will always think you should sleep with him first then he gives you an allowence, to make sure that he doesn’t give you money and you walk, and YOU will want him to give allowence first to make sure you don’t sleep with him, then he walks without giving you a dime.. how does that work??

    • Able Secret says:

      Have him give you cash or use paypal. you just have to be assertive and make sure he gives first. In a nice, flirtatious way you say: “I want to stick to our agreement….you first”….touch his arm, use your sexy voice and come-hither look in your eyes. Get it on the same date you are going to be intimate. If he balks, you know he is fake. Otherwise, you will put out first and he will walk away with free sex. It’s suppose to be mutually beneficial. If he is a real SD, he will have no problem giving you money first. Have an email or something IN WRITING laying out the agreement. These guys are business men….they know the rules. Don’t be played a fool. Also, don’t ever give out your bank account….some fake SDs are out there to drain accounts. I think cash and paypal are the best options, personally. I have read more than a few stories of some women put out first, and never saw a dime. How would you feel? Better to be up front first and make sure he is legitimate. If he’s not, move on. Plenty of SD out there. If you want him for a boyfriend, that is different :-).

  39. Tracy says:

    Hi, just a quick question. Theres a sd coming to town on business, and wants to meet for a night of ”fun”. what is on ideal price $$. ?

  40. nay nay says:

    why are all men such pathetic dogs… ive met 2 great sugar daddies (or so i thought).. we’ve met no more than 3 times (seperately) and to be fair they have been great company. one is now asking me to get involved in a gangbang and the other wants me to start escorting for him. seriously wtf??? not every girl who engages with a sugar daddy is a whore so why do filthy men think females will sell their souls for a birkin…

  41. helpfromSD says:

    I’m SD and I want all of you to understand that like the above article says, you have value. 99% of guys will wait to have sex with you for at least the first few dates… Trust me, the only time we don’t wait is when we take control and you give in. If a guy is willing to drop thousands, they are willing to wait. Everyone appreciates a challenge and something they have to work for. It gives it value.

    An SD will spend what his budget if he likes you, period. You have 100% of the power to start, it’s easy to lose, but upfront you have it.

    Like the author says aim high, let him talk you down to his budget and then like she said shave off 5-10% and say how about X, now you have extra to spoil me. Now he has gotten a super good deal! No buyers remorse on either side. If you aim to high you risk him questioning his decision every time he has to pay up.

    NOTE: Anyone who wants you to do anything you are uncomfortable with the answer is NO! Time to look for another SD. There are tons of SDs… it’s just that nobody knows the vernacular. If you are a beginner this is even more true.

    Hope this helps someone : )

    • imalittlefox says:

      Hello :)
      You could actually help me !
      I am looking for advises from sugar daddies and older men (used to travelling etc…) on a specific matter.
      I already have contacted the owner of that blog, but hey, I could use two points of view from two different persons.

      Note: Thanks for the previous (girl-power oriented ? ^^) post. It was helpful to the budding sugar babbies that we are.

  42. Munchkins says:

    I’m 23 and I met an older guy (he’s 43) while walking home a few days ago. On the day I met him he was sweet enough to buy me a little present, and we’ve been on a date. He brings up wanting to be in a relationship, however I’m not sure how I can steer it into a so-called “relationship with benefits”. He seems like a generous guy as he hints at buying me new jewelry and taking me on vacation. But how do I know if these aren’t just hints of a guy looking to get lucky? Also lately he’s been pushing the sex agenda quite a lot, it also doesn’t help that I find him extremely attractive, so holding back is proving to be quite difficult. How do I show him that I want more of a sugar relationship without him thinking I’m trashy.

  43. Shannon says:

    I’m also just starting out and think I may already have one but I’m confused with a ton of questions! Need someone to explain my situation and answer some questions and give me some advice!

  44. Kristin says:

    Thanx for this post! I’ve recently been asked to be a part of a sugar relationship…I’m not hard up for money by any means i have a great career.. However i am single I’ve never really given this type of relationship any thought so i though t I’d look into the ins and outs of it. This has been extremely informative! However i do wonder if having children would effect a potential SDs decision and of that could turn him away? Can any body help? I am genuinely considering this life style so if any one has any advice please contact me

  45. Reeree says:

    So if my SD is giving me 1000 a month but I want more. How do I go about that ???

    • Reeree, I would just sit down with him and be honest. As long as your reason has to do with you and him, and not you feeling like you are getting less than what’s out there, then there’s no problem.

      If you simply feel like you deserve more, and you feel like your current SD isn’t a good enough partner for you, then you may just want to walk and/or find another SD and then transition to him. Remember, the SB/SD lifestyle is about the relationship, not the allowance. If you are worried about the allowance, then chances are, the relationship is the true problem.

      Let me know how it goes! – TEL

  46. Sarah Clark says:

    After being in relationship with Benson for five years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the Madurai, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before two days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful Dr Madurai who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the Dr Madurai, his email maduraitemple@yahoo.com) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.

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  51. Lillyluvbug says:

    You are awesome! Thank you so much. I’ve learned more and know how to handle myself now. I’m new to this and I am talking with my first SD. If you have any tips for I would so love them. But reading your blog as helped and given me more confidence and don’t feel like a whore lol. Thank you, thank you!

  52. William says:

    I am a new SD & I met a very nice SB but she is also a first timer so neither of us knows what the going allowance is for an arrangement. I would like to hear from some SB & SD that have had ongoing successful relationships. What allowance is enough to keep the SB happy but not to high so that the SD moves on after a short time.
    I do okay but I am not made of money. I am 55, she is 30 and we both live in Dallas. We are both attractive, she even said if I was 20 years younger and she saw me in a club she would hope I would ask her out.
    We will meet once a week during the lunch hour so it’s not a real involved arrangement. I have read a few articles and one said for short meeting four times a month it is usually $200 a meeting but that seams low to me.
    What do you’ll think?

  53. Anna says:

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  55. Yeni says:

    I love your blog. It widened my perspective on sugar relationships.
    I want to transition into the sugar lifestyle. I am a proud full figured girl. I love my curves, but I know there are a few things that need work (hair, nails, skin, tan, style). I want to make sure my SD sees what I am worth. So, my question is: should I create my profile now or should i focus on what needs done to impress SDs?

  56. Shawna says:

    Hello, this is my second time trying this the first time I wasn’t quite sure if I was ready so eventually I erased my profile. Long story short, this blog is very helpful but I’m still unsure of how I should set up my profile, I was hoping I can get a few pointers. I have already read several of blogs which like this one has helped with the do’s and do nots and the inner rules of a sugar relationship, I just would love some help from someone with experience.

  57. reina says:

    Im happy i found yur website i learned alot i want to become a sb but i dont know where to begin on filling out my profile can yu help

  58. Meda says:

    In desperate need of sugar daddy I’m will to do whatever if it not crazy I’m in need of money please please can some one help me. Email me if your serious about helping me at medasexy21@gmail.com

  59. sugarplum says:

    Love this blog! <3 a real eye opener great writing very elequently put… Educational & informative! Thanks a bunch x

  60. Mimifair says:

    Love it. I am considering becoming a sugar baby. I opened a profile in SA indicating that I would be relocating (different city and country) and would like to start a relationship whenever I get to that city. The thing is, with similar pictures and listing my FUTURE location I got many messages from guys interested in meeting me when I got there, many even younger than me and very attractive (I am 33) But in SA I have not got any messages. Could this be simply because of the location?, because in SA i couldn’t list my future location, rather my current one that is a third world country.

  61. lovely says:

    I’m very confused I have been on a sugar daddy site for about a month nowI have not had any good head I don’t know what I’m doing wrong I am very attractive I take very good care of myself maybe I’m just too old I am 46 but people always think I’m at least in my early 30’s I can’t go anywhere without some guy trying to talk to me I carry myself like a lady and I always look like a lady what am I doing wrong? Help me please. I am African American and most websites the guys are mostly all Caucasian but I don’t have a color preference as long as they are a good person

  62. beckyboo6585 says:

    what if im the sugar momma and he is older….?

  63. Margaret says:

    What does one do about a man that is on a SD/SB website looking for a long-term partner or relationship? You know the one that seems like he should be on Match.com.

  64. v says:

    Hi I’m in the uk and a student. and all the guys on craigslist just want sex the first meet, I am very uncomfrotable with that and have suggested drinks before we go to bed and they straight out “I don’t want a drink” “you are wasting my time”

    This is after we have agreed payment (via email – both have agreed to whatever I have asked) so I don’t know how they look like, they refuse to tell me, and say “my looks are not important if I am paying you” I feel like this is unsafe, of course they have suggested that we could have it at my place if it makes me comfortable. But i have never done this before and am 18.

    in part, looks matter to me somewhat, he has to be decent, pleasant on the eye, takes care of himself (no bad breath etc) but everytime I ask them to tell me how they look, they just shut down and refuse to reply. how do I go on about doing this? please please please help me be tactile?

  65. letsbeonthedl says:

    I love this blog and I’m so happy I decided to do some research before I jumped into the shallow water head first. I just have a few questions. 1) the seeking arrangement site asks you to put in your agreement before you can enter the site. (no idea how to do this. I goggled how to write up a SD agreement and I ended up on your blog. It doesn’t however say how you write it out. I want to see my SD 5 times a month. I want 3,001 – 5,000 a month. I was 90% money and 10% relationship?? l read that in your blog but this sounds like things you would talk about on a meet and greet or on email. Not in your profile. 2) you don’t put the offer on the table first. (best advice, never reveal your hand. Play close to the vest and tip the odds in your favor) How do you get him to talk $$$ how do you get an agreement from him?? Should he pay you on the 1st meeting or after the 3rd date??

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    1) you don’t want a guy to have access to your bank account. That’s personal info. A guy with a wireless internet and laptop and figure out a way to get all the personal info on you. Once he’s inside you are screwed!! And not in the good way.

    2) The government picks up on your bank transactions. The more you put in the bank the more interest you occur and the Federal Gov. wants to know where the money is coming from because you will have a paper trail that you will cause you to get stuck paying taxes on. COME ON LADIES!!! COMMON SENSE, WE ALL HAVE IT, LETS USE IT!!!

    3) If we just meet for coffee am I expected to look like I’m going out to the club in an hour?? I’m a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. Should I ask him?? I don’t want him to have all the power.

    4) I’m new to this and I’m OLDER…almost 40 and I think I’m over the SD hill. Plus I’m not the skinniest girl on the block. Most guys want a 21 year old who are all (look at me, I’m HOT) (no offence ladies) so is this possible for me?? True or False??

    5) SD/SM I could go either way. Will this help me or ruin me on the site?

    6) What kind of profile should I type up to get guys to even look at my page and do I put up a pic of just my body from the neck down, no face??

    email me please at jamik_hhp@yahoo.com I look forward to the information

  66. Layla says:

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  68. kaylee says:

    Hey! I absolutely loved this! But I’m new to this, and young. Was wondering if you could give me more insight on all things SB. Here’s my email lovell.kaylee@gmail.com if you wanna teach me and my BBM pin if you have BBM is 24D07469. Thanks again for the tips!

  69. Richard says:

    Both parties should pay attention to perks in a decent SD/SB relationship. These could be *anything*. Does she get a key to his apartment? Does she get a car, or a key to his? Does she get custom hands-on instruction for trading currencies? How about sailing or flying lessons? What’s her monthly clothing allowance, number of pre-paid spa and makeover visits? Vacations either with or without him?

    How about the psychological perks and pains? Does he expect her to be a trophy mistress at parties? Does she get to have actual romantic and/or sexual relations with other people?

    If the financial transaction exceeds $10,000 a year, the IRS wants to get involved. Perks are a nice way to avoid this and also ensure she has a decent lifestyle.

    Oh yeah–one word–Prenup! Good for both of you.

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  73. Nicole says:

    So im fairly average looking, and iv been.looking for my sd for a little over a week, im getting nervious . I havent had much luck finding him, i seem to.attract men that arnt.interested everytime someone messages me they only do so for maybe a day or two? What could i be doing wrong?
    Help!!!

  74. Johana says:

    I’d like get more one on one guidance with this.
    I have created a seeking arrangement profile but I’m kind of stuck now.
    I have so many questions.
    This is my first time can anyone help me out.
    If you are an experienced SB Id like to hear from you and your experiences :)
    Please help me out
    radomemail90@yahoo.com

  75. Hey John X :) We loved the article and thanks for the mention! If we can be of help with anything just let us know.

  76. tasha says:

    Hello. I am a AA mother and graduate student seeking to become a SB. I registered with SA, however, I am unsure of what to write for my profile. I was wondering if there were some experienced SB or SD that could be my mentor or give me some personal instructions. Please help me.

  77. suzqwn@gmail.com says:

    Great information. I just signed on to SA a few days ago and have been conversing with a man who lives in another state. In order for us to meet, he has offered to fly me in to the city where he owns a vacation home and stated that I could sleep in one of the spare bedrooms there. Not knowing him at all, I’m not very comfortable with that scenario. What is your advice regarding this situation? A second question…should I ask to be compensated for making the trip?

  78. Rebecca says:

    Oh my god! I wish I had read this three months ago….

  79. margaretha says:

    Hi there,

    Thank you for this write, actually he is right, relationship about sugar daddy and sugar babbies should not only about money in exchange for sex only.

    I ve been sugar babies and ihave 5 sugar dadies, yes im leaving like rich spoiled girl. But the true is , never about money exchange for sex.

    1. My beloved first sugar dadyy never have made love with me , the true fuck. Only kissing, hugging, cuddling etc. But he never bored teaching me about anything i ask ,from business and how i must doing with my life wisely. And the monthly support he never forget even without i ask. And lots of fun holidays to every beautiful places .

    2. My second beloved sugar daddy, same , but offcourse i have made love with him , but not only made love , he teach me anything i like to know even he entertain me when im sad or confused about something. Plus like my first sugar daddy, he never forget my monthly support and never forget asking me to go holiday .i never ask for this

    3. My sugar daddy no 3, he living outside my country but very near. Same, he never forget monthly tranfer and a bunch of gift i always appreciate when he visit me.and we have fun together, laughing , doing adventures together, make love as we like. I really enjoy and comfort with him and so was he.

    4. My sugar daddy number 4, a really busy man, but same never forget give me support monthly and when we meet he always want to give me extra money for this and that……thats i refuse because he give me so much already. When we meet all i do just listen to all his chit chat that never bored me at all. And go to room have sex with rough and he like light bdsm but he always respect my needs.. and always asking me if i like it or not

    5. My sugar daddy number 5, the gentle one, always do the same.

    So my point is your sugar daddy is not atm machine, they are smart people who have needs like me and every sugar babes. If u are fake they can smell ur fake so fast and run away from u.. if u sincere , honest, taking care all his needs precisly witkhout you evenn never asking for this and that they are showering u with all kind…….but i hope youre not greedy but take advantage to learn more important kind from them. My sugar daddy are ceos, higly position person and mostly very very important person, they are smart and have expriences and they not showering u only with money, but knowledge and fascility.

    • ritalolly says:

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  80. Abby Normal says:

    I LOOOVE YOUR WEBSITE! I just stumbled on it as I am looking for info on what a sugar baby/call girl might do in situations where the sugar daddy wants to make porn with her for his personal use. I make indie porn with my pals, so this isn’t completely insane request, but I think that it should be a different payscale than the normal “visit” since it’s above and beyond. He is saying he’s never paid for this sort of thing, which kinda seems like a line to me.

    Really don’t have alot of pals to ask about this one…

    • margaretha says:

      Hi abby, if i were you i will say no, because there discreetly issue between my sugar daddy and me, we dont have put any evidence about this relationship include porn video. Thats i told my first sugar daddy when he want to make video porn with me for him if someday i go somewhere he want to remember me. Imnsmiling at him, kisses his eyes and i said to him that i always be in his mind where ever i go in the future. But this all things i can not allowed because i remind him softly how about someone know about it and take advantage from us. He is very wealthy man and have very good reputation, and i will not allowed little mistake ruin it for him

  81. Simply_ gorgeous says:

    Wut do u think about my name is that good name for a sugar baby and I was wondering wut do u think should definetly be in a sugar babies bio

    • margaretha says:

      Hi simply gorgeous, i dont know about name but i think ur name should be true image about yourself. And what ur write in your sugar babes bi is the truth about yourself. Here, let me tell u, to have very rich sugar daddy, i think better u respect him firstly are his intellegently..usually sugar daddy who rich , powerful and have important position are very smart person, if they see your not honest, fake they smell it first time they see u, and they will run as soon as possible. But if you honest, you show yourself as you are, your sincerety…..they will respect you from beginning. Its i called built trust from begiining. I never do lies to my sugar daddy, and they trust me, respect me and our relationship begin with that…..because they said honesty, sincerety and kindness is rare right now…..and to them u will like diamond.

  82. Laritza says:

    I came across your page while researching becoming a sugar baby. I’m still lost and, to be honest, scared to go for it. Your blog has answered a lot if questions and I thank you. I just wish there was a way another, more seasoned SB could take me under her wing and help me be successful at this. I’m.worried I’m too old and not a size 4 like some people like … Anyway thanks for the advice.

    • margaretha says:

      Hi laritza,
      First if you scared, not sure, dont do that. Do survey first, learning and do thinking, makeup your mind.
      Because the most important is Your Feeling, Your Security. Being sugar babes u not suppose to have feeling for this relationship. But u have to be really sincere to your future sugar daddy. Thats the most heartway, because if not so , u will have no potential sugar daddy if you fake, but if you involve your feelings u will always broken heart all the time.
      Second about your size you dont have 4, it doesnt matter, thinking this sweetheart, u better holding bones, or soft , warmth dilligent body? U got ur answer already sweetheart, the most important u have know what is you positif in you, your strength and be proud and confidence with yourself the most important be healthy and fun
      So before doing that , better have study reseach etc to make decision, because its not easy job. Alot of emotional and phisically to be maintanance. Cheers

      • Laritza says:

        I’ve been researching this for a couple if months but I’m still kind of scared/unsure/nervous about it. I’m to the fuck-it point; just do it cause sometimes the best things come out of that leap you take.
        ….I just need someone to guide me :)

      • margaretha says:

        My darling laritza, there no tutor or teacher to guide you in this fields. U must decide, if you have decide, nervous and scared if usual, but u can put all of that behind and focus on your target. And remember this is discreet work, u must usual to working alone or someone taking advantage on you. Do you have put ad to looking for sugar daddy? Do you have learn about makeup and how to have beautiful appearance? And how to make uryourself look attractive and have quality? Im not saying about really beautiful look or very young or have killer body, not its not the same, but u must know image that will you built about yourself that atrrack very rich, powerfull sugar daddy. If you have private email, i will send u my picture the real one without some changengin and i always give my real picture to my potential sugar daddy the real one and have fully describe of me the honest one. And its always succeed to attrack really high guality sugar daddy.and have long regular relationship so u just not like hooker changing partnes all the time. I think you have realized the danger of it.

      • jasmil says:

        Hello Margare,

        I read your advice. I’m (like everyone here) just starting out. Could use some specific pointers. Also I would love for you see my profile and backs and give me your honest feedback. :-) thank so much between your advice and this blog I’m beginning to get the gest of things.

        Thank you
        My e-mail is JasmilVcorgi@yahoo.com

  83. Satori says:

    Thanks for writing on the subject… I have been a sugar baby via online dating for a very brief stint… and now getting out of a wasted serious relationship (with a “regular” guy) I really want to give this a try because I believe love can grow from a good friendship and the SUGAR will just be much deserved ‘cherry’ on top…. My comment/question is are there any ladies here interested in keeping in touch and becoming friends, possibly even working together to network and just HAVE FUN for 2014? I am so tired of the lame same old scene in Atlanta and need new friends who are on my level…

    P.S. I’m not motivated by money but I know if so many ditzy, disloyal females can get the sweets then it’s about time I work my magic and really get mine.

    I consider myself an 8/10 (confident not cocky) but I know some people think I’m a 10… I’m an exotic mix of races, cultured, educated, have a good job that lets me travel – it’s just not the kind of money I SHOULD be making… because I love to travel and sleep in late I sacrifice my salary and now I want to find a real man who I can have fun with, adore and spoil/be spoiled by!
    I’d love to meet some trustworthy ladies who FEEL ME on this and would like to make new friends (normally I don’t even get along with most women but I’m open minded and believe that many of you are not your average GAL… so I hope to get some responses)

    SatoriSeed@gmail.com :* thanks galz.

  84. Satori says:

    P.S. I found my new potential via online but not an SD site… he had “Sugar Daddy seeks” on his ad and claims he’s never really done it before but said ‘screw it’ … he sounds very educated and successful from his rants about business in just two emails and one phone call… said he’ll fly back in town for dinner next weekend and possibly take me to Vegas already, my issue in the past has been that I end up getting too comfortable too quickly – I can’t put on a ditzy girl act like a lot of females seem to do, acting outgoing and bubbly if I don’t really feel like socializing is my least favorite thing in the world…. I guess my rhetorical question is; should I shut up and put the game face on? I know every guy is different, I don’t feel he would offer an allowance etc, I don’t want to be exclusive soon at all- what other advice do you have to get them to discuss these subjects or for example give up the goods w/out having to ask for it…

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  86. sarah newell says:

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  88. Satori says:

    I’m not seeing as much activity here as I’d hoped :/ P.S. Unless you’re a virgin SARAH go blow somebody lol… Sugar Dating is and has been around forever – you know you want to be a sugar baby otherwise you’re just a serial dating whore yourself lol… I can’t stand double standards… I’m NEWLY SINGLE and after wasting 4 years of my life with a lame guy (who didn’t even want sex as much as I do) I FINALLY REALIZE I should just raise my standards of DATING REAL MEN… It’s not about money for love it’s about putting yourself in the right situation and having a MUTUALLY BENEFICIAL RELATIONSHIP :) I’m so excited to finally give this a real shot… already have two trips planned with some old friends, and a few potential SDs from my online profile… Fingers Xd! ;)

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  89. roxanne says:

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  90. Kitty says:

    I love this and the way you’ve written it.

  91. Candice says:

    Fabulous post, thanks. So many girls don’t realize that the relationship should be a good experience for both the daddy and the baby.

  92. Mia says:

    The thought of going down this road keeps crossing my mind and this is the first blog I’ve read that’s made me feel super positive about it – thank you!

  93. Niamh says:

    This is really interesting thank you, I’m obviously not the right age yet to be a sugar baby (15), and I still want to finish school and go to Uni just to see if I can cope on my own – but this gave me a good insight of what I should expect/ how to act if I do become one.
    I will definitely be looking through the rest of your blog, and I case I do ever become a sugar baby in later years I’ll hit you up :-)

  94. Demi says:

    Okay, so i managed to snag a sugardaddy or 2 within the first 3 weeks of me looking. i had lunch with one and we talked he took me home, gave me 1,000$ to start as my based 5,000 a month. no sex involved. Now my second sugar daddy is much wealthier, wants to set me up with 15,000 a month with my own place and car. Recently he decided to take me shopping in NYC and Miami then head to Brazil for 5+ days. This will be our first meet, i’m not to sure how i feel about the sudden getaway, so i talk to a family member who then tells me i should ask for information from his such as name, address, etc. once i confront my wealthier sugar daddy about this, he flips shit! and proceeds to say he doesn’t see the point in use continuing this arrangement,
    he’s so disappointed in me and i should find someone much younger to put up with my drama and bullshit. so i’m sitting about explain how i’m sorry, and i won’t do it again, but he refuses to budge. finally after 2 hours of messaging i say, and i quote ” You know what, you’re right.Fuck it, i never beg for anything so i wish you the best!” and he replies “Take care!”. so at this point i’m fed up. i don’t care too much to ever see or speak with him again. an hour goes by and he messages me on Skype saying “Call me back…. It’s beneficial to u and your buddies!” then texted me “Call me if you like, I had already reserved at the mandarin hotel in NYC for you and your friends on Tuesday night, i can’t cancel it so you and your buddies might as well take advantage of it.” What he’s referring to is the fact that he agreed to a NYC shopping spree with me and 4 of my closest friends, yay right?, then once we had the fall out i thought that was all gone. so i called him 30 mins after he messaged me. And he said i could still go. and even offered to buy me a mac notebook and a new phone just because. PLEASE explain to me this mans insanity. i literally thought we were done now he’s asking me to send pictures non-sexual. and he will call me later. i want to know why he got so upset when i said my cousin needed info and to meet him? is he hiding something? should i not interact with him? i’m soooo lost right now..

    • Sasha says:

      Demi, he’s a psycho and is probably trying to screw you over by getting info from you to use for blackmail. Don’t let him do that to you….

      • Demi says:

        yeah i figure, be cause today is Tuesday and none showed up to get us, nor did he even make a reservation at the NYC hotel…he asked for my name for check in and i gave him my nickname but still, i haven’t heard from him at all since Monday afternoon.

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  95. Verri says:

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  98. Abbie says:

    Meeting a sd next week …. He’s talking all kinds of sex I won’t give it up that easy didn’t sleep w/ my x hubs for a year after we met….. What if he is a lair n just wants my goods and has no$( I’m an1st time baby) very timid but know I’m worth way more than 15k …….easybim attractive good shape pretty but not I’m pretty and I know I’m not a b word ….( well I can be but I’m a woman we all are!!!) n way

  99. Jasmil says:

    I’m new to the life style, what is the exactly the best way to get paid? I.e. should you tell him to pay you every time he sees you, once a month or what? My concern is that if he gives you the money every-time he sees you and your minimum is 5k what happens if you were intimate with him before the last meeting and he doesn’t give you the rest?

  100. Raven says:

    I’m new to the SB world; and I met my first “SD” on AM. He does seem to like me, seems to be a romantic (sends me flowers all the time, etc)…however, he has not brought up money. And I don’t know how to bring it up, although I made it perfectly clear of what I’m looking for on my profile. Now it seems he constantly texting me, and we are headed towards our third date. I followed your instructions so far; no sex, no bringing up money. But how do I approach things now? On one hand I want to talk about money so that things are clear. On the other, I’m afraid if I do it will turn him off and he will leave. He is a sure bet and I know he has money to spare. Problem is, he hasn’t offered to share it with me yet. What can I do?

  101. Josephine says:

    Hi, great read. Really interested in becoming a SB. Wondered if you knew any great UK sites as I live in England? Also I’d love to discuss a few things with you, see if I’d be desirable in your opinion and if my offers are reasonable. I really appreciate your help :)

  102. nyloo says:

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  103. nyloo says:

    One more question how much i should ask ideally?he offered me 2000$..should i tell him 2000 euro or ask more?

  104. Meda says:

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  106. Cya says:

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  114. China says:

    Very interesting read. Have never heard of being a sugar baby before. Really appreciated the in-depth view of what the beginning stages entail. Very thoughtful analysis I think. Being an escort, it is a very interesting relationship dynamic I could imagine being a sugar baby and sugar daddy.

    • Rob says:

      Of course lovely I would say many of these women have kids. If your ex has your kids from time to time that even makes it easier. Nothing changes with kids the schedules just have to align like any other sb/sd

  115. bexstewart says:

    Hello, I wanted to know if you knew of any Sugar Daddies that aren’t who they say they are or at least knew where to find them – forums perhaps?

  116. Daisha110 says:

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  117. Rob says:

    Ok. I a very upfront individual withe emotional security and financial security to make an arrangement work. From a guys perspective, wow are there a lot of strange, and substance abuse issues with these SB’s. I would love to see the physchological profile of many of these people. So lets consider you finally sort through this mess and find one you are interested in. The difficult part from my perspective is not the amount of or desired amount, but the consideration for the time. For instance lets say you can only meet once a month for a day or out of town for 2 days. A woman that would like 10000 a month would be silly but that is what she wants.

    She could clearly find another SD to fill in the gap, but why would I pay for an arrangement 10000 a month when I can only meet for a couple days a month. I would like to see some ideas on amount of time, for the desired arrangement amount. Ideas welcome.

  118. Jessy says:

    Love this how to guide :) After reading it Iooked more into this aspect and came across this video on what sugar daddies are looking for in a sugar baby and thought to share it with you guys, maybe it will help you out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OO1qggIRAgY
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  119. Michelle says:

    I met my sugar daddy not even 2 full weeks ago but he has been amazing. Last week he have me 1k and today we just did paperwork for my passport. We are going to Bora Bora next month and I’m so excited! We just decided on a 2500 allowance and I think that’s fair. He proposed that I use that for bills and other necessities but I will still get gifts, trips, dinners, and spa dates! I’m 24 and he is 62.
    My only issue is that he wants a serious relationship but with his offer on the table I feel he is a sugar daddy. What do I do as far as communicating our title?

  120. Jana says:

    I met a possible sugar daddy on one of the websites. We emailed a couple times, then had a few conversations on the phone. We talked a little bit about an arrangement, but very vague. Initially, the arrangement was to enjoy each other and allowance. We decided to meet, he flew me out. We had a good time. In person, we talked a little about arrangement but nothing serious. I didn’t sleep with him but did mess around. Now, I’m not sure if I messed things up. He did book me a plane ticket afterwards to travel somewhere I wanted to go. What should I do now? We talked about meeting in New York in a couple weeks but I’m not sure if that will happen. If it does, what should I do? I want to travel, have a good time, get at least 2500 a month. Please give me advice! Now, it has only been a couple days since I saw him.

  121. interested baby says:

    I loved your blog. Very informative & I loved that you were bluntly honest (totally my style). I still have few lingering questions. I am interested in being a SB. I DO however have a current boyfriend. Not as SD, an actual relationship, however it is long distance. I’m anxious to read your advice or opinions on that. Also, I am not fit or skinny AT ALL. I do however have that potential but lack of funds to join a fitness center or pay for the help of a nutritionalist have left such things to go by the wayside. I do feel that besides my fitness, I have many other attractive attributes such as a pretty face, I’m intelligent (school wise and street wise), confident, funny, independent, out spoken, open minded, and very adventurous. Is this something SD might still desire even though my body is not anatomically correct? If so, what range of pay would should someone like me consider herself in? My next and possibly biggest concern is I am not a fan of being owned/told what I can or cannot do. Therefore the independent, strong willed, & outspoken part of me comes out. I’m concerned that because a SD is paying for my company, etc that he ‘owns’ me or will feel that he does. I’d appreciate your thoughts on this as well. Thank you for your time :)

  122. missie says:

    What if he has already started talking about money?

  123. ritalolly says:

    Hello! I like this post, and I must confess I’m fascinated by it; I’m really searching for a sugar daddy and I’ve also registered in one of the sugar daddy site u listed on this post, but I’m in africa, Nigeria to be precise, so I’m wondering if it’s still possible for me to get a sugar daddy, and for us to meet ASAP. I will really like to hear your reply, u can ping me on 2924CBC8 or follow me on twitter @RitaLolly or preferable facebook: Rita Lolly; if u also have a rich and generous sugar daddy as a friend u can have him invite my bbm pin: 2924CBC8. ( Kisses )

  124. lovely says:

    what if your a single mother with 2 young kids can you be a sb?

    • Mike says:

      Possibly. Tomorrow, I’m having the initial lunch date with a potential SB who I already know has an 18-month-old at home. I’m well aware this will affect her availability, but I’m prepared to deal with it. I can only recommend two things 1) make this clear early on – honesty is best, and 2) never introduce your children to your SD – young children are easily confused.

      • Ngaire says:

        I’m interested in a opinion, Mike. I am a nearly 40 mum, and far from perfect. Pearshaped but not hidous. I’m interested in this kind of set up, however am unsure of demand out there. What do you think? Honestly. Contact me please.

  125. Tatiana says:

    Hi all, I am a SB travelling to the US for a couple of days and want a short term SD to spoil me while I am in town. I have a few Potential SD yo meet, but not sure how to handle this short arrangement since its not a long term thing, and they most prob want sex. Any suggestion on how to handle this with not much time to ‘negotiate’ or get to know them?

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    Well first of all, I’m a newbie on these things, I’m a bit scared at first that’s why I need a lots of searching for tips and tricks safety. So I have been chat with a guy, he’s married, on profile he offered negotiable over $20K without pict. And he messaged me. We chat and send me a pict coz he said he don’t want his pict on publics. We chat and talk about the arrangement that we might comfortable, he asked me flight to his country and offered me to pay the ticket too. But I need visa and etc. Well I guess it takes time for while. So that time that we have before we meet he asks me some questions about personal. Like sex and send pict. I did sent normal pict with full cover body. But he asks my naked pict?!!
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    • RB says:

      Did you video chat Bee. I am a man and to be honest I never ask a woman to send me a naked photo. Some do it on their own accord, but I would not. I don’t need a nake pic of a woman to know if I want get to know them. There are picture collectors out there. Just tell hiim you are comfortable yet and see his reaction. Maybe that will say it all. Maybe a bikini shot or similar if you keep talking. To fly to a person’s country you better have a great rapport established.

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  137. Marilee says:

    What an informative website this is! As a new SB, this is invaluable.
    I have a question: I have a potential SD with whom I’ve been exchanging emails for about a week now. We’ve exchanged some photos via email and had some sexy conversations, and now he wants me to send video of me masturbating. He said at the beginning that he is willing to provide an allowance, but we haven’t had a first meeting or negotiated allowance yet. How should I respond to this?

  138. Mia says:

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  139. es92 says:

    Very helpful article and many good comments. Can anyone offer any advice on profiles? Im having a hard time figuring out what to say.

    -In the part about you, how much should you say, I don’t want to bore a POT SD with it being too long but dont want to stand out. i know this should also be more about the type of man you are trying to attract too and not a full bio about yourself really too….
    -section about what kind of arrangement you are looking for… this is really the part i have a problem with. How detailed here? I would think this is something that would be talked about privately but i guess some standards should be said? would an SB say how many times she would meet. it wouldnt seem right to say she wanted $ each time or weekly/monthly here since there is already the part where you select the amount you want and then again, you would talk about each arrangement with each POT SD. right?

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  141. kenzie says:

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  142. amber boudreau says:

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  143. chantal says:

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  144. RoseLe says:

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  147. Rosie says:

    Some guy had on his profile he was willing to put up 5-10k.He’s a first time SD, I’m a first time SB. We just had our first meeting and he brought up money. He offered 1500, I counter offered with 3000, but mentioned we’d have to discuss what our visits/ dates would entail(just dinner vs spending the night). I told him to think about it and get back to me once he thought about it. He texted me, offered 1600 for up to 4 visits a month. I told him I valued myself at $2000 allowance for 2 visits a month. He told me to let him know if that changed. I told him I hope he finds a sugar baby to make him happy :-)

    Anyways, thanks for the advice on negotiating, I felt confident and proper during the discussion, and didn’t settle for $400 a visit. I’ve got tuition loans to pay.

  148. kim says:

    I want to become a SB can you tell me on what I should put on my profile I don’t want to word it wrong

  149. Aston says:

    I’ve yet to find a real sugar daddy, don’t think they exist! If they do where in South Africa can I find one?

  150. Grace says:

    Is there any forums or something where I can talk to other sugar babies? I’m just starting out and I have a lot of questions.

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    Please email and help me! First time SB, I live in canada and met a SD who lives in Florida, he wants to make all arrangements and fly me down there and spend the weekend with him we agreed on 6000 a month and 3500 spending allowance a month but I don’t know when to ask for my spending allowance, I am short on cash and don’t want to risk flying down there and something happening and not getting home?! :/ help!

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